the importance of having a sense of humor

 the importance of having a sense of humor ....human life must always socialize with other people, so that in each of socialization that certainly tucked various things, be it in the form of tension, stress, conflict, anger and rivalry with each other. best remedy for this situation usually is a smile that broke from every body, because it was the smile that could dampen any anger in man and the occasional outburst of laughter can break the tension between the disputants, and most importantly smile is also a point of worship in a religion.

What if we have a good sense of humor  that’s far from the words that are pornographic, abusive, etc. Then it will help us to live in society and be able to release the us of a problem and handcuff situation. The ability to make someone laugh out of the tension is a very good capital because it is universal, humor can bridge stiffness relationship. 

sense of humor was important enough to be owned by any person who wants easily socialize with the people. But  we do not attempt to try too hard to be funny, because one day it would make uncomfortable atmosphere. a sense of humor that should be practiced naturally just not too much or excessive. Because if too much, it will bring impression that as if in contempt and also could drop a prestige of person.

I read in a book that is an essay from "Hashim ABDULLAH", he said that a sense of humor is one indicator of a person's success, and he said that some leaders are successful and the best people who he ever met like: arafat el-shehab, Djamaludin shahidan and Abdurrahman wahid (gusdur), still not five minutes they talked, most of leaders were able to deflect the conversation spontaneously that can make laugh everyone without running out of the context and the concept of conversation.

intelligent humor indeed be able to give a plus in a good interpesonal relationships. Therefore,seriousness in achieving our ambitions and our ideals or whatever that we wants..don’t make us seem to be rigid, even seem to be people are spooky and sinister..

If you want funny stories, or humors funny that made laugh out loud. read a collection of humorous stories in the world..!!

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