Saturday, July 27, 2013

Touching Story - Motivation for wife

Touching story that is so motivating- Here's a story or a sad story that can motivate you to live the household life. Touching story or a sad story is about the journey of love a wife who never loved her husband for 10 years of marriage until her husband died, and finally she realized how much love and affection that’s given by her husband over the years. she spent the first ten years to hate him, but after her husband gone, she spent most of the rest of her life to love her husband.
I hate him, that's what always whisper in my heart for most of our time together. Though married, I never really give up my heart to him. Married under compulsion parents, made ​​me hate myhusbandself.
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Although forced marriage, I never showed hatred attitude. Though hated him, every day I serve my husband as duties of a wife. I had to do it all because I have no other handle. Several times a desire to leave but I do not have the financial capability and support anyone. Both my parents were very fond of my husband because according to them, my husband is a figure of perfect husband for their only daughter.
When married, I became very spoiled wife. I did everything as I please. My husband also indulged in such a way. I never really live my duties as a wife. I always rely on it because I think it was supposed to be after what he did to me. I have given my life to him so that the his task is having to make me happy is to obey all my wishes . In our house, I'm the queen. No one dared to fight. If there is a little problem, I always blame my husband. I do not like a wet towel placed on the bed,  I'm annoyed look he put the rest of the spoon stirring milk on the table and it left a sticky, I hate him when he used my computer though just to finish his job. I'm angry that he hung his clothes in kapstock my shirt, I was also angry that he wears without squeezing toothpaste neatly, I was angry when he called me up many times when I'm having fun with my friends.
At first I chose not to have children. though I'm not working, but I do not want to take care of children. Initially he supported, and I and him planning it with pills. But apparently he hid his desire so deep that one day I forgot to take pill, and even though he knew he let it. I also pregnant and only realized after more than four months, and the doctor refused to abort.
That's my biggest anger to him. Anger grew when I became pregnant and had a pair of twins had a difficult birth. I forced him to perform vasectomies so I'm not pregnant anymore. he dutifully did all my wishes because I threatened to leave him with our children.
Time passed until children aged eight years. Like the previous morning, I woke up at the end. my husband and children were waiting for me at the dinner table. As usual, he was who provided breakfast in the morning and take the kids to school. That day, he was reminded that day that there was the anniversary of my mother. I just replied with a nod regardless words reminiscent of the events the previous year, at the time I chose to the mall and not present in the event the mother. Well, because they feel trapped by marriage, I also hate my parents.
Prior to the office, usually my husband only kiss me on the cheek and followed the children. But that day, he also hugged me so the kids tease him noisily. I tried to dodge and release his arms.Though finally smiling with the kids. He kissed back up a few times in front of the door, as if the weight to go.
When they go, I will decide to go to the salon. Spending time at the salon is my hobby. I arrived at the salon my subscription a few hours later. In the salon I met one of my friends at the same time people do not like. We chatted with fun activities including exhibiting mutual us. It was time I had to pay the bill of salon, but how shocked I was when I realized that my wallet left behind at home. Although reached into my purse to the deepest part of me could not find it in the bag. Trying to remember what happened until I could not find my wallet I called my husband and asked.
"Sorry dear, yesterday Farhan asking pocket money and I did’n have little money so I take from your wallet. I forgot to put it back into your bag, I think I put it on my desk. "Said explained gently.
Angrily, I scolded him harshly. I hung up the phone without waiting for him to finish talking. Shortly thereafter, my cell phone rang again, and though still annoyed, I will raise it half snaps. "What else??"
"Honey, I'm home now, I'm going to grab your wallet and drove it to you. dear, where are you now? "My husband asked quickly, worried I hung back. I called my salon name and without waiting for the answer again, I re-hung. I talked to the cashier and say that my husband will come to pay my bills. The owner of the salon that my friend actually let me go and said I could pay for it later when I'm back again. But shame because the "enemy" also know if I missed wallet, makes me ashamed to owe my friend. Rain fell when I look out and hope my husband's car coming soon. Minutes passed into hours, I can not wait to start getting the phone call my husband. There was no answer despite many times I called. Though usually only two times my phone rings has been answered by him. I started to feel bad and angry.
My phone was lifted after several attempts. When sound my snapped is not out yet again, a strange voice answered the phone my husband. I was silent for a few moments before the sound of the stranger introduced himself, "Good day, madam. Are you the wife of Sir armandi? 'I answer that question soon. The stranger turned out to a police officer, he told me that my husband had an accident and now he is being taken to the police hospital. At that time I was just speechless and just replied thank you. When the phone is closed, I crouched in a daze. My hands clutched the phone in my hands and came up with alacrity some salon employee asked me what happened to my face became pale as white as paper.
Somehow I got to the hospital. also somehow suddenly the whole family was there followed me. I just quietly waiting for my husband in front of the emergency room. I do not know what to do as long as it was he who did everything for me. When finally after waiting a few hours, precisely when the maghrib call to prayer sounded a doctor came out and deliver the news. My husband has gone.He went not because of the accident itself, the stroke was the one who caused his death. Finished hearing the fact that, instead I was busy strengthening my parents and his parents are in shock.There was absolutely no drop of tears in my eyes out. I was busy calming the mother and father-in-law. Children who are hit, hug me tightly but their grief not completely unable to make me cry.
When the body was brought into the house and I sat in front of him, I was staring his face. I realize this is the first time I really looked at his face which seemed fast asleep. I approached him and looked at it carefully. That's when my chest becomes congested remembered what he had given me over the past ten years of our togetherness. I touched his face which has cooled slowly, and I realized this is the first time I touched his face, which had always decorated with a warm smile. tears welling in my eyes, blurring my vision. I gasped trying to wipe the tears that did not prevent his last look, I want to remember all the parts of his face so that the sweet memories of my husband did not end just like that. But instead of stopping, the torrential tears flooded my cheeks. Warning of a mosque imam's which regulates the funeral procession can not make me stop crying. I tried to hold it, but my chest tightness to remember what I did to him last time we spoke.
I remembered how I never pay attention to their health. I hardly ever set his eating. Though he always manage what I eat. He noticed vitamins and medications should I consume, especially when pregnant and after childbirth. He never missed eating regularly reminded, sometimes even fed me when I'm lazy to eat. I never knew what he was eating because I never asked. I do not even know what he likes and dislikes. Almost the whole family knows that my husband is a fan of instant noodles and strong coffee. My chest tightened hear it, because I know he may be forced to eat instant noodles because I hardly ever cook for him. I only cook for the kids and myself. I do not care he had eaten or not when go home. He can eat only when residual cooking. And he came home late every day because of the office is quite far from home. I do not ever want to respond to his request to move closer to the office for not far away from where my friends live.
At the funeral, I could not help myself anymore. I fainted when I saw his body disappear simultaneously burying the soil pile. I do not know anything until waking up in my big bed. I woke up with a sense of regret fulfill my chest cavity. extended family in vain to persuade me because they never know why I was so hurt to lose him.
I lead the days after his disappearance was not freedom as long as I wanted but instead I was stuck in the desire to be with him. In the early days of her disappearance, I sat stunned staring at an empty plate. Father, mother and mother-in-law talked me into eating. But what I remember is when my husband persuaded me to eat when I'm angry. When I forget to bring a towel in the bath, I called him screaming as usual and when even my mother who came, I squatted down crying in the bathroom hoping he comes. Habit is called each time I could not do anything at home, making his friend answered the phone with confusion. Every night I wait for him in the bedroom and hope tomorrow morning I woke up with a figure of him that was beside.
First I was so upset when sleep hear his snoring, but now I often woke up longing to hear back. First I was annoyed because he was often a mess in our bedroom, but now I feel our bedroom feels empty and hollow. First I was so upset when he did the job and left it on my laptop without shutting down, now I'm staring at the computer, wipe the keys hoping his fingerprints are still left there. I used most unhappy if she makes coffee without base plates on the table, want now traces left in his last breakfast did not to erase. Typical television remote hidden by him, now I found easily, though I wish I could replace his loss by losing the remote. All stupidity is what I did because I realized that he loved me and I was hit by the arrows of his love.
I was also angry at myself, I'm angry because everything looks normal even though he had no. I'm angry because the clothes are still there to leave scent that makes me homesick. I'm angry because I can not stop all of my regrets. I am angry because there was nothing else to persuade me to calm down, nothing else to remind me to pray, although now I do it all with sincerity. I pray because I want to apologize, apologize to God because has squandered the husband  that god has awarded to me, asking for forgiveness for being such a bad wife to husband that is so perfect. worship the one who is able to remove my grief piecemeal. God showed his love to me with so much attention from the family for me and the kids. My friends who I behind Stand up for this, almost never showing their nose after the departure of my husband.
Forty days after his death, the family reminds me to rise from adversity. There are two children who are waiting for me, and should I live. Re feeling confused over me. So far I know just sorted out and never worked. All done my husband. How much of its revenue during this I never cared, I only cared about the amount of dollars that he transfers into my account for me to wear for personal use and every month the money is almost never left. From the office where he works, I earned final salary along with bonus compensation. when I saw it ,I was speechless not expect, it turns out the entire his salary is transferred to my account for this. Though I was never the slightest use for domestic purposes. I do not know where he obtained another money to meet household needs because I never even asked about it. I know now I have to work or my children will not be able to live because of the amount of final salary and bonus compensation would not be enough to feed the three of us. But work where? I hardly ever had any experience at all. Everything is always governed by him.
My Confusion missed some time later. My dad came with a notary. He brings a lot of documents. Then the notary gave a letter. Husband affidavit that he bequeathed his entire fortune to me and the kids, he accompanies his mother in the letter but that makes me not able to say anything is what he wrote to me.
Beloved wife Liliana,
Sorry to leave you first, dear. sorry to make you responsible for taking care of everything alone. I'm sorry I can not give you love and affection again. God gave me the time is too short for love you and children is the best thing I ever did for you.
If  I could, I would like to accompany dear forever. But I do not want you to lose my love for granted. So far I have been saving little by little for your life later. I do not want love difficult after I left. There's not much but I hope love can use it to raise and educate children. Do your best for them, yes dear.
Do not cry, my dear spoiled. Do a lot of things to make your life is wasted for this. I give you the freedom to realize the dreams that you do not have time for this. Forgive me if I troubled you, and may God give you a better mate than me.
dear farah, my beloved daughter. Forgive as the father could not be there with you. Be a good wife as mother and Farhan, my knight protector. Keep mother and Farah. Do not be a naughty boy again and always remember wherever you are, dad will see it there. Okay, Buddy!
I sobbed reading the letter, there was a cartoon with glasses are given tongue sticking typical of my husband if he sent the note.
Notary told that my husband had been having some insurance and savings deposits from the legacy of her father. My husband made ​​some business from the results of the savings deposits and business was quite successful despite is run by people that he trusted.. I could just moved to tears knowing how great his love for us, so that when he died, he was still flooded us with love.
I never thought of getting married again. Many men who attended did not able to remove her figure is still so alive in my heart. Day after day I devoted just to my children. When my parents and my in-laws go one by one leaving me for ever, none leave sadness as deep as my grief when my husband left. now, both of my son and daughter are twenty three years old.. In Two more days my daughter married a young man from across the land.. Our daughter asked:" Mom, I'm should be how it later after be the wife, The problem farah can not cook, can not wash, how ya ma'am?"
I embrace her and said " Love dear, love your husband, love your choice of heart, love what he has and you will get everything. Because of love, you will learn to please him, will learn to accept his shortcomings, will learn that for any issues, you'll get it done in the name of love. "
My daughter looked at me, "like a mother's love for a father? Love is that what makes mother remained faithful to the father until now? "
I shook my head, "no, my dear. Love your husband as father loved mother, like father loved you both. mother always loyal to the father because the father's love is so great in the mother and you both. "

I might not lucky because do not have time showing my love for my husband. I spent ten years to hate him, but spent most of the rest of my life to love him. I was free of him because of death, but I never could be free from the his love that is so sincere.

Sunday, July 21, 2013

the importance of having a sense of humor

 the importance of having a sense of humor ....human life must always socialize with other people, so that in each of socialization that certainly tucked various things, be it in the form of tension, stress, conflict, anger and rivalry with each other. best remedy for this situation usually is a smile that broke from every body, because it was the smile that could dampen any anger in man and the occasional outburst of laughter can break the tension between the disputants, and most importantly smile is also a point of worship in a religion.
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What if we have a good sense of humor  that’s far from the words that are pornographic, abusive, etc. Then it will help us to live in society and be able to release the us of a problem and handcuff situation. The ability to make someone laugh out of the tension is a very good capital because it is universal, humor can bridge stiffness relationship. 
sense of humor was important enough to be owned by any person who wants easily socialize with the people. But  we do not attempt to try too hard to be funny, because one day it would make uncomfortable atmosphere. a sense of humor that should be practiced naturally just not too much or excessive. Because if too much, it will bring impression that as if in contempt and also could drop a prestige of person.
I read in a book that is an essay from "Hashim ABDULLAH", he said that a sense of humor is one indicator of a person's success, and he said that some leaders are successful and the best people who he ever met like: arafat el-shehab, Djamaludin shahidan and Abdurrahman wahid (gusdur), still not five minutes they talked, most of leaders were able to deflect the conversation spontaneously that can make laugh everyone without running out of the context and the concept of conversation.
intelligent humor indeed be able to give a plus in a good interpesonal relationships. Therefore,seriousness in achieving our ambitions and our ideals or whatever that we wants..don’t make us seem to be rigid, even seem to be people are spooky and sinister..
If you want funny stories, or humors funny that made laugh out loud. read a collection of humorous stories in the world..!!
I hope this article was useful and See you in a new article next week ...:)

Monday, July 15, 2013

The Funniest Stories

The Funniest Story in the World

If you want funny stories, or humors funny that made laugh out loud. read a collection of humorous stories in the world are the following:

Photo Memories: One day in an elementary school,all students photographed together. After the photo was printed, teacher persuade children to buy their photo, one photo for each person. He also said to his students, "You should buy this photo because all your friends here complete collected. These photos will give you sweet memories. Someday when you grow up and mature and look at this photo, I'm sure you be happy. "

silent students didn’t say anything, and then the teacher continued, "Try to imagine, while you will see this photo and say," Oh this Tina, now become a doctor. This Totok, now become official, this tari is now become artist, this ... "
A male student behind interrupt, "this teacher  who is now deceased." 
Teacher: hah....?????..

War film producer: A Film producers wanted to make a huge war movie that involving up to thousands of people as extras. "I'm going to use the army for two squads for the battle scene. Each team will consist of 25,000 people," he revealed his desire.
While a director just fascinated with the plan, "It's Fantastic".
"But, how are you going to pay their salaries?, What is not a waste of money?," Said the director.
"I have figured out!," Said the producer. "That is why I would use live ammunition, not rubber bullets!"

How the thief to get into my house: A man went to the police station with the aim to meet the burglar who broke into his home last night and had been intending to steal. "Oh, do not be ... You will get the chance to speak with him on the court ... calm down do not be emotional," said a police officer on duty at the time.
"Oh, no, no ... not so!," Said the man. "I want to meet him only want to ask how he could get into my house without waking my wife?. Though I've tried it for many years, but it never worked."

Funny Story Udin who has 10 years of wandering in the Big City will return to his home in the village.
Three days before returning home, Udin call his sister and brothers were named Mat, Tiko and Jeny.

Udin: mat..!  I want to go home, what gifts you want?
mat: (somewhat hesitant) I want HP iphone 5, brother !!!
Udin: ahh .. it's the easy, I'll bring it. I want to speak to tiko, mat !!.. what was he there??
Tiko: Hello brother ..
Udin: Hello Tiko, I will be going home tomorrow, what gifts do you like?
Tiko: Well that really brother??? (Somewhat hesitant).. Tono just want a digital camera, brother..
Udin: That's easy, I will bring it tomorrow ... please,give phone to jeny,ko !! I want to speak to jeny,.. what was she there??
Jeny: Hello Udin ... (With a melodious voice)
Udin: what gifts do you want?
Jeny: I don’t need gifts ,brother ... I could borrow had mat and Tiko...
Udin: No need hesitate... tell me what you want, jen..?!
Jeny: (with the sound was a little hesitant to answer) I fear trouble you, brother...
Udin: I ‘m not bothered, say what you want !!!
Jeny
: well then Jeny want camisole ... brother
Udin: Ahh please do not that hard difficult Jen, which it simple as desired gift mat and Tiko
Jeny: wahh .. you have a lot of money, haven’t you?
Udin: Not so well, jen .. If the camisole, I'll hard to steal it... I am ashamed of, if I later have to reached into female underwear ...


One day in the jungle.
Monkey: "Tarzan ..., why the hell are only you which wear pants? We all do not wear. There's a secret what the heck?"
Tarzan: "There's no secrecy!"

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Monkey: "We're good friends. Why is there still secrecy?"

Tarzan: "I said nothing, means there is no secrets!"

Monkey are not satisfied with the answers of Tarzan. So he invites his friends to the his cottage Tarzan and lurking to find the secret of Tarzan.

As usual, before bathing Tarzan always open his pants(it is the only one his pants)
so the monkeys saw  Tarzan who naked, the monkeys was laughing until stomach pain. Monkey said, "No wonder he wears pants. Apparently he was embarrassed, because the his tail is in the front, short and small.! "


Housemaid
One day, a lady housekeeper came to her female employer.
Maid: "Madam, I want to ask for a raise!"
Employer: "Why do I have to raise your salary?"
Maid: "There are 3 reasons mistress .. First I cleaned the house cleaner than the mistress."
Employer: "Who says?"
Helper: "Sir sources say ma'am".
Employer: "Oh ..."
Maid: "Secondly, I cook better than the mistress."
Employer: "Who says?"
Maid: "
Mr. who says to me."
Employer: "Oh ..."
Maid :: Third, I am in bed greater than the mistress. "
Employer: "Hah!!! What host that say?!?!! (With a bit suspiciously)"
Maid: "No ma'am .., but host next to house said, if mistress is less great in bed ""
Employer: "Ssssstt!!! how much do you ask for a raise..??”

Child custody
 A married couple was attending their divorce trial. In the trial will decide who gets custody of the child.
with screaming hysterically and jumping the wife said:
"Your Majesty, I have conceive and give birth this baby to the world's... with my pain and patience!! the child custody have to be mine! "

The judge said to the husband:

"
What is your defense against the demands of your wife? "

The husband paused for a moment, in a flat voice he said:
"We are sorry Your Majesty, if I insert a coin into soft drinks vending machinethe engine will shake a moment, and drinks out, According to the noble, drinks it belongs to me or the machine?"

Big liar
A traffic policeman stopped the car of a man who raced at high speed through red lights.
Traffic Police: "
Good evening sir. Please show your driver's license ".
Man: ""Wah, I do not have Sir. My driver's license has been revoked because too often ticketed ".
Traffic Police: (Grinning) "what is.? If so, please show the vehicle registration ".
Man: "I do not have a sir. Because this is not my car. This stolen cars ".
Traffic Police: " stolen Cars?"
Man: "Yes sir. But, wait a moment. If not mistaken, I see there is vehicle registration in the tool box in the back seat when I keep my gun in there "
Traffic Police: "Hah ...? There is a gun in the toolbox? "
Man: "Yes sir. I put my gun in there when I finished robbing and killing a woman and put her body in the trunk ".

Traffic Police: "There is a corpse in the trunk ..?"
Men: (With a cold face) "Yes sir ....".

Such hearing, the traffic policeman frantically called his supervisor who then contacted the police chief. a few minutes later, the car was immediately surrounded by police cars and police chief approached the man and asked him to stay calm.

Police chief: "May I see your driver's license, sir?"
Man: "Oh, sure". (Her license is still valid and official)
Police chief: "Whose car is this?"
Man: "My car sir. This is my vehicle registration ". (Also still in effect)
Police chief: "Can you open the tool box slowly and show me your gun in there?"
Man: "Of course sir, but no gun there". (Of course, there is no gun in there)
Police chief: "Hmm .. if so, may you open the trunk, please? I got a report that there was a body in there ".
Man: "Well sir ..." (Baggage opened and there was no body there.)
Police Chief: "I do not understand. The officer stopped the your car and said you did not have a license, stole the car, had a gun in the toolbox, rob and carry the corpse in the trunk ".
Man: "Oh, what he said like that.? I'm sure the big liar also told you that I was still drove in a red light. "

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

5 attitudes of the Japanese people that we must imitate

The progress of the Japanese nation has no doubt, Japan Japan become one of the countries the Qibla in terms of industry business success. And as we all know that to be successful, we need to learn from the person or people who had already successfully. Hence, in this article, we will discuss about the 5 attitudes of the Japanese people that we must imitate, so that we could be more successful person. So, What are the 5 attitude I mean? Let's discuss,will you...:)
There are many things that can make us more and more amazed at the success of Japanese, one of which is in the middle of the limitations of natural resources, Japan actually able to change these limitations into a force that actually support the success of the country. Not only that many big companies such as Toyota, Yamaha, Honda, Panasonic, is a line of proof that Japanese feasible for we emulate in terms of business. Okay, just go ahead, this is the 5 attitudes of the Japanese that we must emulate if you want to succeed :
1. Diligent in reading
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 Although I have never been to Japan, but from a variety of readings and impressions I have ever seen, it can be concluded that most Japanese people really like to read. When they were on the way to work, when they break, and many more, essentially as if the book is one of the components of their daily lives. No need to doubt anymore that by reading books we can get rich of information and knowledge, and from the knowledge that we can build roads to reach success. For that if you want success, For that if you want success, do not be lazy to read. Make reading as the primary needs of your life.

2. Principles of Kaizen and Hansei
What is it? Indeed, these two principles is a little strange in the ears of people who are not Japanese. Okay let's discuss,will you?... :)
The principle of kaizen is ongoing and continuous improvement, that we can interpret as sustainable and continuous improvement and aim to get better results than previously.  As for the principle of hansei is never ending correction. Well these two principles is a noble values ​​ingrained in the culture and business climate in Japan.
Not surprisingly, with the application of the two principles above, the Japanese industry could grow successful and prosperous. They always strive to continuously improve the quality of their life and of course coupled with improvements that never stop.  A way of working that would make the living system becomes so extraordinary. to be able to know how to do kaizen, you can also read my other articles such as "Toyota Kaizen Methods" .So, let's apply this principles of kaizen and hansei in our lives together..
3. Keeping the Cultural Values
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http://blogmotivasi.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/budaya-samurai-Jepang.jpg Japan is a developed country that still hold fast to the values ​​of their local culture. We can saw for yourself Japan is still able fluoresces their local wisdom even amid great fanfare them as a developed country with a tremendous industrial strength. Habits of Japanese citizens to keep their culture is worth us to follow, take a look at a variety of typical Japanese culture that has always existed up to now, such as samurai culture, tea culture, and much more.

4. Work hard and never give up
The success of Japanese nation also because the Japanese people who are always working hard and never give up. Same as most of people in east asia. They worked so hard and never give up in their livesAnd the Japanese society in this case really prove it. This is shown with how quickly Japanese nation rise from shattered that's caused by world war 2nd and became one of the world's economic center in the not long after that.
5. Maintain the honor and reputation
Japanese society has own values in terms of honors. Still remember the Japanese health minister who resigned for making mistakes. Or officials who eventually committed suicide because of corruption. Or a student who committed suicide because of poor value. Which has made ​​Japan no.1 in case of suicide. And the occasional you certainly have heard the term harakiri.. That is the term suicide by jabbing sword to the stomach after failing in duty for a soldier in Japan in former times. It was all done because Japanese people have a sense of shame is so high. But keep in mind that this is not mean you have to kill yourself after you fail or make a mistake. Due to cultural harakiri in Japanese has now been removed because it is not a good thing. But we can take a positive message, with a shame that, Japanese society is now always trying and competing to in terms of goodness. and we ought to imitate them.

Well colleague readers that's kindly.. It was 5 attitudes of the Japanese people that we must imitate if we want to achieve success and better quality of life again. Hopefully dish this article can give a lot of benefits and inspiration for you. Keep the spirit and see you in new article next week..... :)

Monday, July 1, 2013

5 factors that kill employee motivation

As a businessman, one of the important points that should not escape our attention is keeping the motivation of employees. This point is fairly important, considering good or bad performance of employees will impact on the company that you run.
When decreased employee motivation, we can be sure if wheels of company are also not able to walk in balance. Vice versa, if the employee motivation can be maintained, then the development of your company can run smoothly.
Even so, until now there are many businesses that pay less attention to motivation of employees. So naturally when it came to the current culture resign (exit) of a company to be a very common thing among the people around us. Therefore, in order to maintain the motivation of each employee in your company. Let's look together on the 5 factors that kill  employee motivation .
First, create a competition in which employees will be promoted and the other remained at the same position. Most businesses may think that this way is a good strategy for measuring teamwork skills that you have. But you don’t realize that this would just kill employee motivation who are not promoted.
Second, indifference leader on dreams, goals, and job satisfaction of employees. If corporate leaders pay less attention to what can motivate employees, and do not know what can be fun and make a success of workers, then it is possible to kill their motivation to work because they feel their welfare less attention.
Third, expect on just one employee. These conditions may often we meet around us, many businesses who entrust all matters on the company's only to one employee who became his right hand. Of course this is not quite right, because one day when you lose the person that you trust, so the wheels of company will also falter. Therefore, start to develop skills of your workers and prepare them to occupy important positions in your company in accordance with their abilities. 

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  Fourth, lack confidence in the ability of its employees. In many cases, corporate leaders typically assume that what he aspired for the development of the company has not been understood by the employees. So most business leaders do not help employees to understand how to be expert in the work, and not promote them to a better position.
Fifth, reward is more often given to employees who are good at talking. People who are good at speaking, and tend to stand out is often considered by the head of the company. Things like this of course we often encounter in the field, but the head of the company less attention is that there are also some people who do not talk much but the quality of his work deserves to get the award (reward). Therefore, you should give reward to your employees based on the targets of successful work that they accomplished.
After discussing the five business tips that elevates employee motivation, now it's your turn to apply it directly on the company and maintain the loyalty of your employees. and if now you are an employee, then you need to read this article “What for do you work?”. So that we can work with heart and makes our work as worship to God. Hopefully this article useful, see you in a new article next week..:D