Motivational story - time for our children

This article contains a motivational story about how important to give time to play together with our children. so that children do not feel lonely and feel neglected by their parents. I hope this article is useful for those of you who became a father.

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One day, a father came home from work at 21:00 night. Like the previous days, it was a very tiring day for him. When he got home he saw his son that has been 8 years old who still sits in 2nd grade elementary school was waiting at the front door of the house. Looks like he had a long wait.

"Why not sleep?" Says a father to his son.

Usually the child is asleep when he got home from work, and just wake up when he will be ready to go to the office in the morning.

"I waited for Dad to go home, because I want to ask how much is the salary dad?", Said the boy.

"lho,why do you ask dad’s salary?? You want to ask for money again,don’t you? ", Replied the father.

"Ah, no dad, I just .. want to know ..." his son said 
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"Okay, you may to count yourself. Every day dady worked about 10 hours and paid $ 400. average of every month is counted 25 working days. So, how much daddy’s salary for one month, come on, you can count it?! ", The father asked.

Then the boy ran to take paper from study desk while his father took off his shoes and take a drink.

When the father went to the room to change clothes, the children followed him.

"So if one day Daddy get paid $ 400 for 10 hours, it means one hour Daddy was paid $ 40,isn’t it ??!"

"You're smart, you sleep now,right? .. it was night!"

But the child does not want to move to sleep. "Daddy, can I borrow $ 10 or not?"

"It's late my son, why ask for money at the night like this. Already, in the morning only. Now you have to sleep "

"But daddy .."

"already, now sleep" the voice of the father began to rise. (With a little emotion)

The little boy turned to his room. The father seemed to regret his words. Shortly afterwards he approached his son in the room. The boy was sobbing while holding money $ 30.

He stroked the child's head. His father said, "Forgive Daddy,will you?! Why do you ask for money this time of night .. Tomorrow it could still be. never mind just $ 10 ,more than it is also no problem. You want to use to buy toys, right? "

"Daddy, I'm not asking for money. I borrow ... I'll back again if I have saved again from my allowance. "

"Yes .. yes .. but for what?" Asked the father

 "I'm waiting for Daddy coming home today from at 20:00 o'clock. I would like to invite Daddy play car racing games. just one hour Dad, I beg. Mommy often say, if the time daddy is so worth.

So I want to buy daddy's time. I open my savings, but there's only money $ 30.  just now Daddy said, for an hour Daddy was paid $ 40 .. Because of my savings was only $ 30 and it was not enough, I want to borrow $ 10 from Daddy "  the father just speechless.

He was lost for words. He hugged his little son while crying. Heard the words of his son, the father fell silent, he immediately was touched, speechless and cry ..

then He immediate embrace his beloved child, crying and apologizing to the child ..

"Forgive Daddy my son  ..." said the father.

"Daddy has been wrong. for this, Daddy forgot for what Daddy worked hard. Forgive Daddy dear"  said Daddy in the middle of the voice his crying.

The child only silent in His father's arms.

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I want to ask you at this time ..

Actually, what is your reason to work very hard and are looking for your career success?

For the sake of a lot of money? Or indeed for the sake of your family?

Often we are too busy working that we forget that the family is most important.

There is no useless you are success but in the end your family have left you or your relationship with the family has been broken.

Indeed, fortunately the child to talk and communication with his parents to pour out his feelings.

Often times, children tend to be quiet and do not even talk at all about their condition to the parents.

When they are given question, they just answered "there's nothing"

How you can solve the problem if you do not even know where the problem is?

This often occurs to children and especially in children during adolescence.

They feel neglected / abandoned, not in loved, is not appreciated by his own parents ..

The next question might be heavy enough for you ..

"According to you, better you love your child or your child feel loved by you?"

Think about the answer to this question ..