Build Motivation Within Oneself

Ideals or purpose in life can only be achieved if you have a strong motivation within yourself. Without any motivation, it's so hard you achieve what you aspire. But it can not be denied, it is quite difficult to build motivationwithin oneself. even you may not know exactly how to build motivation within yourself. When in fact many things that can be done to improve motivation within ourself.

The trick? try to Check out these tips:

1.   Create a sensation

Create something that can "wake up" and arouse you at daybreak. For example, you think tomorrow should get a profit of 1 million dollars. Although it sounds impossible, but this sensation sometimes spur your spirit to work better than what you have done yesterday.

2.   Continue to develop your goals

Do not ever fixate on one simple goal. The purpose of life that so simple will make you do not have the more power. in the fact to reach for something, you need greater challenges, to exert your true strength. The purpose of life that great will raise the motivation and strength in your life.

3.   Think about death

You need to think about the time of death even though the symptoms in that direction can not be predicted. Imagine the last moments in this life is really a moment of very sensational. You can imagine the 'flash back' in your life. Since you live as childhood, adolescence, up to appear as being mature and independent. If you imagine 'your death' is imminent, will motivate you to do even more for your life.

4.    Leave your friends who do not need

Do not hesitate to leave friends who can not encourage you to reach goals. Therefore, whoever your friend, should be able to bring you in change for the better. Know get along with people who are optimistic will make you think optimistic too. Together they live is even more fun and full of motivation.

5.    Approached the shadow of fear

When you overshadowed by anxiety and fears, do not run away from the shadows. For example, during the time you afraid to face a bad future. Come and enjoy your fear by trying to solve it. When you succeed overcoming fear, at that time you have succeeded in increasing the confidence that you capable of achieving a better life.

6.    Say "welcome" in every problem

The way to achieve the goal is not always as smooth as toll road. One day you will face a steep road, uphill and full of rocks. Do not rotate the direction to take shortcuts. Continue to face the road and think about the best way to get through it. If you see a problem as something terrible, you will be more difficult to be motivated. Conversely, if you are ready to face any problem, as if you have excess energy and enthusiasm to achieve your goals.

7.    Start with pleasure

Do not ever feel burdened with your life purpose. Try to enjoy life and the way that you take. If  from the beginning you've felt 'dislike' may be the motivation from within oneself it will never you have.

8.    Practice hard

Can not but, you have to practice all the time if you want to get the best results. Basically there's nothing that can not you achieve if you keep trying hard. The more diligently practicing the easier it is to overcome every difficulty

Conclusion:

Motivation can foster the spirit to achieve goals. Strong motivation from within ourselves will have a high appreciation and respect for self and this life. So we will not hesitate to step forward that is to achieve vision of our lives.

Hail Success!

Motivational story - time for our children

This article contains a motivational story about how important to give time to play together with our children. so that children do not feel lonely and feel neglected by their parents. I hope this article is useful for those of you who became a father.

buy time

One day, a father came home from work at 21:00 night. Like the previous days, it was a very tiring day for him. When he got home he saw his son that has been 8 years old who still sits in 2nd grade elementary school was waiting at the front door of the house. Looks like he had a long wait.

"Why not sleep?" Says a father to his son.

Usually the child is asleep when he got home from work, and just wake up when he will be ready to go to the office in the morning.

"I waited for Dad to go home, because I want to ask how much is the salary dad?", Said the boy.

"lho,why do you ask dad’s salary?? You want to ask for money again,don’t you? ", Replied the father.

"Ah, no dad, I just .. want to know ..." his son said 
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"Okay, you may to count yourself. Every day dady worked about 10 hours and paid $ 400. average of every month is counted 25 working days. So, how much daddy’s salary for one month, come on, you can count it?! ", The father asked.

Then the boy ran to take paper from study desk while his father took off his shoes and take a drink.

When the father went to the room to change clothes, the children followed him.

"So if one day Daddy get paid $ 400 for 10 hours, it means one hour Daddy was paid $ 40,isn’t it ??!"

"You're smart, you sleep now,right? .. it was night!"

But the child does not want to move to sleep. "Daddy, can I borrow $ 10 or not?"

"It's late my son, why ask for money at the night like this. Already, in the morning only. Now you have to sleep "

"But daddy .."

"already, now sleep" the voice of the father began to rise. (With a little emotion)

The little boy turned to his room. The father seemed to regret his words. Shortly afterwards he approached his son in the room. The boy was sobbing while holding money $ 30.

He stroked the child's head. His father said, "Forgive Daddy,will you?! Why do you ask for money this time of night .. Tomorrow it could still be. never mind just $ 10 ,more than it is also no problem. You want to use to buy toys, right? "

"Daddy, I'm not asking for money. I borrow ... I'll back again if I have saved again from my allowance. "

"Yes .. yes .. but for what?" Asked the father

 "I'm waiting for Daddy coming home today from at 20:00 o'clock. I would like to invite Daddy play car racing games. just one hour Dad, I beg. Mommy often say, if the time daddy is so worth.

So I want to buy daddy's time. I open my savings, but there's only money $ 30.  just now Daddy said, for an hour Daddy was paid $ 40 .. Because of my savings was only $ 30 and it was not enough, I want to borrow $ 10 from Daddy "  the father just speechless.

He was lost for words. He hugged his little son while crying. Heard the words of his son, the father fell silent, he immediately was touched, speechless and cry ..

then He immediate embrace his beloved child, crying and apologizing to the child ..

"Forgive Daddy my son  ..." said the father.

"Daddy has been wrong. for this, Daddy forgot for what Daddy worked hard. Forgive Daddy dear"  said Daddy in the middle of the voice his crying.

The child only silent in His father's arms.

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I want to ask you at this time ..

Actually, what is your reason to work very hard and are looking for your career success?

For the sake of a lot of money? Or indeed for the sake of your family?

Often we are too busy working that we forget that the family is most important.

There is no useless you are success but in the end your family have left you or your relationship with the family has been broken.

Indeed, fortunately the child to talk and communication with his parents to pour out his feelings.

Often times, children tend to be quiet and do not even talk at all about their condition to the parents.

When they are given question, they just answered "there's nothing"

How you can solve the problem if you do not even know where the problem is?

This often occurs to children and especially in children during adolescence.

They feel neglected / abandoned, not in loved, is not appreciated by his own parents ..

The next question might be heavy enough for you ..

"According to you, better you love your child or your child feel loved by you?"

Think about the answer to this question ..   

Be Creative and Innovative

To be creative and innovative people, one of the requirements is have to be able to think out of the box. But think Out of the Box or think out of the grip is generally very difficult. Therefore we have to know in advance how to think out of the box it. 

How to think out of the old ways are increasingly familiar. To search for creative ideas, it is considered very effective way. Once there was a story, when gold mining became a trend. People flocked to gold mining. But, in the end who is getting rich?

It turned out that getting rich is the seller of shovels. Because he tried to get out of the minds of people in general and try to find the opportunity to see the needs of the miners. He saw the need for a shovel will be higher and it is true. Until finally drove him to become a millionaire.

As it was a small sample of people whose his thoughts are not limited by a grip in general.

Why then I am interested to discuss this, because this is interesting. I then realized when following this discussion with one of the artists. Previously, information about this method is often. But, only after a discussion I began wanting to practice it.

The analogy is very simple why I was interested. Just imagine if in a crowd everybody wearing red and only you are wearing a white shirt, then who will be the center of attention ... 
Of course you are. 

To be able to attract the attention of all people to read your posts for example, then Serve the writings that people have never read or at least different from the people who already know in general.To be able to think out of the 'box' , then you have to know what is thought by the people at large. 

When we knew what people thought in general, then it implies that we will know what were never thought by peoples.

At that point we will be able to see the opportunities.

But, it is to be able to think out of the old patterns is needed habituation. And not in a blink of an eye.

So, good luck. and see you in the next article ..

Motivation - Inspiring Stories

 This article contains a short story that can motivate the reader. in order to better understand how to respond to any incident that happens to us. and this is the motivational stories. please enjoy this article ........

Thinking "Out of the Box"

 Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender. The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant's beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain. He said he would forgo the merchant's debt if he could marry the daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.

The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag. The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag. If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender's wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the merchant's garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.

What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked." Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an advantageous one.

 MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.

Frogs

A group of frogs was traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit.

All the other frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead.

The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump out of the pit with all of their might.

The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead.

Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die.

He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?"

The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.

Author Unknown

Lessons to be learnt:

1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day.

2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill him or her.

Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words.... it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times.
Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another.

BANK ACCOUNT

Imagine there is a bank, which credits your account each mornig with Rs 86,400, carries over no balance from day to day, allowy you to keep no cash balance, and every evening cancels whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day. Its name is Time. Every morning it credits you with 86,400 second. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft. Each day it opens s new account for you. Each night it burns the records of the day. If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours.

There is no going back. There is no drawing against the “tomorrow”.

Therefore, there is never not enough time or too much time. Time management is decided by us alone and nobody else. It is never the case of us not having enough time to do things, but the case of whether we want to do it.

“ A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble.

source of article : SHORT INSPIRATIONAL AND MOTIVATIONAL STORIES

Collection of Funny Stories

Here is a collection of funny stories that will be updated to provide light entertainment for those of you who are working in an atmosphere of distress ... please enjoy this article....A collection of funny stories humor.

Funny story - Strange Medicine 
Patient: Doc, please help cure my disease. I often walk at bedtime.

Doctor: It's a box that can solve your problem. Every night, when you are getting ready for bed, sprinkle the contents of the box on the floor around your bed.

Patient: What is this box, Doc? whether a type of sedative powder? 
Doctor: Not. This box of tacks.

Patient: Ha! (with gawking eyes).

Funny story - failed to prevent pregnancy
A mother to see a doctor to check pregnancy... Doctors: Loh! it's mother the other day that check, is pregnant again?

Mother: yes doc?
Doctor: what is contraceptive that I gave the other day, does not you drink?. 
Mother: I drink doc!

Doctor: then why do mother can get pregnant??

Mother: yes, how do not want to get pregnant doc, drugs just to neck, my underwear is up to the knee.

Cockatoo 
In a bird shop, have 2 parrot. Both birds are different, which one likes to sing and the other one just silent, come someone wants to buy a parrot. He said to the bird seller: 
Buyer: How much is this parrot ...??

Seller: If that love to sing it 500 dollars, while is silent 1,000 dollars. 
Buyer: lho..why is bird that likes singing cheaper than that just stay quiet. 
Seller: yah .... clearly different because that silent bird is his song creator.

Crying of A Mother

A unfortunate family, finally figured out that one of their daughters to work as a prostitute in the big city.. The mother was sobbing. 
"Why are you crying?" neighbors asked, "What has happened has happened, that is important we always pray,, may she soon realized."
Wiping her tears away, the mother replied haltingly..."I weep not for that, but I was moved to tears because She was the only child of six siblings who eventually managed to get a job."

Funny story – Weapon eat master 
A reporter was covering the event of an accident. Because a lot of people who gathered around the crash site, the reporter can not break through to see the victim from close ..After thinking hard, the reporter get the idea. "move aside all, I am the victim's father!" he "Sure enough ..... the crowd let him pass. All eyes were directed to the journalist. (In the hearts of the journalist said:" It worked too!) When he reached the middle of the crowd, he was stunned to see ... a monkey child lying helplessly !

Wrong entering in the room 
hastily,a mistress into a room  that she thought it was the doctor's office. 
Mistress: "Doctor, what's wrong my body?"

a man: "Madam, you are too fat, your powder too thick, your lipstick is too red, your hair needs to be painted, you are too much smoke, and another..you are wrong into the room. doctor is in the next room. I am just newspaper carrier. "

Funny story - Divorced 
Judge: Why would you want get divorced?..

Udin: It does not fit anymore, Mr. Judge.

Judge: Why could not fit anymore?indeed who has changed the size..

Students Harleys 

In class, a senior lecturer being berated his students:

Lecturer: "just answer only not capable, eh!!! instead joking and chatting casually. Answering questions is also no one knows, so it's useless this lecture, well .. Now who was dumb standing!!" The professor snapped. A few minutes there was silence.. Suddenly from the back seat a student standing. Lecturer: "So you are absolutely sure, you're the fool that???" No sir, I just can not bear to see Mr. lecturers stand alone."

Funny story policeman, prostitutes and a grandmother

Police raided several prostitutes ​​and herded them to the police station for questioning one by one.
because prostitutes who caught very much, queuing up to exit the police station fence. not long then, Gone are a grandmother who would buy kerosene.
due to see the crowds, the grandmother ask questions to prostitutes who stand at the very back of the queue.
granddaughter, you are in the queue for what ??

because ashamed to frank, the prostitutes replied casually, were queue for candy, Grandma.

prostitutes so shocked in fact the grandmother it was also queuing up.

prostitutes ask the question, what are you doing, Grandma?. Grandma would also queuing up candy, grandchild....short story the grandmother came their turn to be interrogated

so surprised the police officers to see grandmother who had been frail was counted in the queue prostitutes. 
with great care the police ask the question, what is grandma still able to? the grandmother replied with a vibrating tone because age that had old, if just sucking anyway, grandma still okay, grandchild .... !

Similarly, a collection of humorous stories this time. You can also see my other article"The Funniest Story in the World", may be a mild-quality entertainment, and wait for the next article ...